Professor Kent Gramm is being fired from Wheaton College for getting a divorce (read about it here).
There are no words that do justice to my anger over this.
Kent Gramm was is a wonderful educator. He was my favorite professor at Wheaton; I took every class he taught, and even sought his critiques for my writing when he wasn’t the professor.
How is it right, fair, or Biblical for him to be fired over his personal life? How is it his employer’s business that he’s getting divorced, let alone why? In no way does a divorce make Dr. Gramm any less of a Christian. In no way is ANYONE at Wheaton College in a position to say he’s not worthy to be there. He did nothing illegal, or, that anyone knows of, unbiblical. (The irony, of course, is that in the article, Wheaton criticizes the Catholic Church for setting up authority above the Scripture…which is exactly what they are doing so unabashedly.)
Jesus spoke so much more about love, grace, forgiveness, and kindness. Helping those who need help. Giving people second, third, fourth chances. The Pharisees, who plotted his “trial” and crucifixion, were the ones who cared about the fundamentalist rules of the Old Testament. Even if Dr. Gramm’s divorce is, technically, a sin (which, pu-leaze!), who has the right to judge him? Why not offer to help him through what must be a difficult time? Wouldn’t THAT reaction be more Christ like?
The whole thing is despicable. I’m so ashamed. I’m so hurt. I’m so pissed. Christians should be role models of love and forgiveness, not judgement and hate. Especially since there is no one in the world, Christian or not, who has not sinned. Everyone makes mistakes. Everyone falls short of the glory of God; that’s why Jesus came. If sin were not a problem, then his life, death, and resurrection would be pointless.
Actions like this are the reason I stopped going to church. People like this are the ones who give Christianity a bad name. Remember the protesters at Matthew Shepherd’s funeral? “God hates fags”; “Matthew’s burning in hell.” I see a terrible connection between those protesters and my Alma-mater. I feel the same feeling now that I did while watching the coverage of the protests: “Please don’t let anyone find out I’m a Christian. Call me anything you want, but don’t call me Christian.”
(No, it’s not completely fair, not all Christians are judgemental assholes, but that doesn’t change how I feel.)
I don’t want anything to do with these people, and that sort of breaks my heart.
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